Yes, I’m laughing as I come out of my imperfect triangle with my imperfect body. But, oh, what fun!
Yes, seven. Though I did not number them, as numbering implies prioritizing and I did not want to do that. So there. And so here, in no particular order, seven things:
- Yogis come in all shapes and sizes.
Yes, despite what you see in Yoga Journal, or in commercials, or modeling yoga clothes, yogis vary. A lot. And the “perfect” body may not always indicate the “perfect” practice. Someday, I hope advertisers and editorial staff (I’m talking to you, Yoga Journal) figure this out and start using photos of real bodies having real fun.
So, that first bullet leads directly to my second (though, still, you know, no particular order…)
- It’s as much mental as it is physical.
Okay, you probably did know this, at least if you practice yoga. But it bears repeating. It’s easy to spend your class practicing the physical postures, without remembering you’re also there for the mental practice.
Right now, you’re probably laughing. “Breathing’s not hard. After all, we all do it without thinking about it!” But it is hard. Hard to keep your breathing calm, and to use it correctly, while you’re once again falling over just.as.your.head.touches.your.knee. (DAMN IT!) or when the frustrations of your daily life interrupt your concentration and the “fight or flight” kicks in during Rabbit… or even during Savasana.
- Savasana is even harder than breathing.
I’ll just point you at this post…because you know, this is hard for me.
- Not all yogis are “earthy crunchy”.
Not that there is anything wrong with being an organic vegan tree-hugger… No, but seriously, the idea that in order to practice yoga, I had to give up, to offer just one example, booze, kept me away from it for a long time. I don’t mean to say that I think those who choose to be what I call, for lack of a better phrase, “earthy crunchy”, are wrong. It’s just not me. And I’ve discovered over my years of practice, that it’s not a lot of us.
- Teachers have bad days too.
Yes, we all have bad days. And sometimes, your teacher may not be able to hide the fact that she’s having one of those… so cut her a break. How many times have you come into the studio grumpy, and used her positive energy to help change your mood? Return the favor!
- Yes, it is all about you.
Your yoga practice may be the one thing in your life that is only and solely about YOU. What YOU want, what YOU need, what makes YOU better (whatever better means for YOU). Glory in it. And you’ll soon find that letting it be all about you ends in it being all about those around you.